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It combines as auxiliary with introverted Feeling and gives rise to unusual skill in both character development and fluency with language--a sound basis for the development of literary facility.If INTPs aspire to word mechanics, INFPs would be verbal artists. This stealth function in the third position gives INFPs a natural inclination toward absent- mindedness and other-worldliness, however, Feeling's strong people awareness provides a balancing, mitigating effect.Feeling is caught in the approach- avoidance bind between concern both for people and for All Creatures Great and Small, and a psycho-magnetic repulsion from the same.The "object," be it or a mere representation of an organism, is valued only to the degree that the object contains some measure of the inner Essence or greater Good.
Perhaps coincidentally, perhaps not, this is one of the two "ideal" types predicted by Keirsey in the original version of "Please Understand Me." (In the next version of the book, he changed his theory in accordance with his new view that Intuition and Sensing should match up between partners for the best results, hence only the ENTJs are listed.) The question is, do INFPs choose ESTJs because they actually prefer ESTJs, or do they choose them because ESTJs are common and ENTJs are rare?So just remember: Ever since Keirsey published Please Understand Me II in 1998, it has generally been accepted that the Rationals are the best partners for the Idealists.This appears to be true--at least from the Rational point of view.The INFP may turn to inferior extraverted Thinking for help in focusing on externals and for closure.INFPs can even masquerade in their ESTJ business suit, but not without expending considerable energy.With few exceptions, it is the NF child who readily develops imaginary playmates (as with Anne of Green Gables's "bookcase girlfriend"--her own reflection) and whose stuffed animals come to life like the Velveteen Rabbit and the Skin Horse: "... As INTPs tend to have a sense of failed competence, INFPs struggle with the issue of their own ethical perfection, e.g., performance of duty for the greater cause.Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. An INFP friend describes the inner conflict as not good versus bad, but on a grand scale, depicts this conflict in his struggle between the two sides of "The Force." Although the dark side must be reckoned with, the INFP believes that good ultimately triumphs.It's as though they live at the edge of a looking-glass world where mundane objects come to life, where flora and fauna take on near-human qualities.INFP children often exhibit this in a 'Calvin and Hobbes' fashion, switching from reality to fantasy and back again. And running up after me, she caught me as I was again trying to force open the door. "Have to burst it open," said I, and was running down the entry a little, for a good start, when the landlady caught me, again vowing I should not break down her premises; but I tore from her, and with a sudden bodily rush dashed myself full against the mark.--(Melville, Of course, not all of life is rosy, and INFPs are not exempt from the same disappointments and frustrations common to humanity.This introverted Sensing is somewhat categorical, a subdued version of SJ sensing.In the third position, however, it is easily overridden by the stronger functions.