Christian dating discussion questions
When I was dating I remember constantly being smothered with that one giant question. To magically stumble upon “The One” like finding the gold at the end of a rainbow that is being carried by a unicorn with leprechaun jockey.
But how are you supposed to know which one is the right one?
Your significant other shouldn’t seek to totally change you, but they should seek to challenge you to grow. We all go through intense, all-encompassing communication training for years; it’s called childhood.
And it’s hard to un-wire 18 years of being shown how to talk and listen to others in family situations.
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When it comes to measuring physical health, doctors and nurses do all kinds of tests. Date long enough and be honest enough with each other and you’ll find out this truth. In a healthy relationship, you try to figure out how you each are contributing to the problem.
If your visions for the future look very different, it’s better to discuss it now than to be surprised by it later.
In marriage you begin to rub off on each other, subtly taking on traits and characteristics of the other.
Become like some figment of their unrealistic dating imagination?
Or are they challenging you to become more like Christ and consequently, become a better, authentic you?
But when someone loves from their strengths, they know who they are and are drawing from a deep, full well to give to you without demanding a drink in return.
We all have insecurities, fears, failures, painful memories, and just all around unattractive stuff we’re hiding in the back of our closet.